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I am well known for my openness and vulnerability and my controversial stories, coming from abuse survivor to relationship coach and sexual healer. My book which is both an autobiography and self-help book is due out in 2017 and will be the first in a series of many – to secure a discounted copy when it is first released enter your email here.

In the meantime you can find me sharing vulnerably through my writing and videos on my blog, Facebook page at EJ Love Priestess, instagram, youtube and snapchat: ejloveangel. I would love to connect with you!

Hello Amazing Being!

I’m EJ Love, often known as ‘The Love Priestess’. I am a Love, Relationship and Sex Coach as well as being practiced in the art of Tantra and Sexual Healing. This website is the space where I share my experiences in relationships, love, spirituality, sex, healing and intimacy. I am absolutely passionate about sharing my message globally so that I can help people all over the world to have the deep soul-connected love and intimacy that each of us is ultimately yearning for!

My knowledge in Love, Intimacy and Sex combined with my focus on self-love, soul connection and spiritual rituals has led me to being aptly dubbed the Love Priestess. Speaking vulnerably from my own personal experiences, I travel the world sharing my message through speaking events, media, podcasts, radio shows, TV and writing articles for magazines, books and blogs. You will find me as one of the the regular speakers at SEXPO, as a a guest speaker on world summits and I am also the featured Love and Sex Expert on Soul TV.

I have experienced the deep power of tantra and sexual healing where I now help people to heal and empower themselves in love, intimacy and sex. I run online programs, one-on-one coaching, workshops and retreats which have helped hundreds of women and men to love themselves, release and heal shame and past relationship trauma so they can go forward in love with confidence and connection. You can find more about all my programs and events here.

My Story...

How it all began and why I know a thing or two about love, intimacy and sex…

I experienced very low self-esteem from childhood and at just 17 I entered into a marriage that was highly sexual and became abusive – physically and emotionally.

I found myself continuously ignored and constantly feeling rejected and unwanted. However there was always one way I could guarantee to get him to come back to me – with sex and money. It was then that I associated much of my value on this – that it was all that I was worth and as long as I provided sex and money then I would be wanted by a man.

After two years I finally walked away from that relationship and then my 10yr long battle with an eating disorder began. Subconsciously I also told myself that men would only want me if I was skinny and pretty. As I found myself being noticed by men, sex became a way for me to be in control and feel good about myself.
For ten years I numbed the pain of feeling rejected, unworthy and not feeling good enough by dating and sleep with a lot of men and women, partying, smoking, drugs and alcohol. I would attract the same types of men, having the same pattern of attracting narcissists, abusers, liars and users and I always ended up feeling devastated, confused and unwanted. I would blame them however I once I started to heal myself, I could see why I was attracting this and how I had been enabling their behaviour.

I had been playing the 'rescuer' and I was overgiving, self-abandoning and completely losing myself when I was with them.

I had no boundaries, I didn’t even know what boundaries were! You see, I was continuously seeking for love outside of myself, wanting so desperately to be loved and giving my power away trying to get love from other people. I would also self-sabotage any real chance for a loving relationship by pushing away and unconsciously emasculating all the healthy men because underneath I didn’t feel worthy of them. I was afraid to be seen and if they got close I would put my walls up and energetically check out and pull away, making sure I had one foot out the door in case it didn’t work out, which only then signalled them to have one foot of the door which created the cycle and feeling of rejection. Of course it always appeared to me as though it was them who left me. Because that was the story I had been living through – of rejection, abandonment, unworthiness, being unwanted and not good enough. I had no clue about this at the time though!

My social life and sex life led me to working in the adult and entertainment industry.

I had now turned to swinging to fill my need to feel wanted, to get love, attention and validation. I was attending sex parties almost every weekend and soon I was running my own popular swinger’s parties and adult themed events. This led to me working in the sex industry as a High Class Escort where I would tour Australia whilst hosting my online TV channel – SexyON TV. To the outside world it seemed like I had a dream life, making lots of money, travelling the country, going to sexy parties and interviewing pornstars! But I was only happy when I was ‘busy’ with all this ‘stuff’ which only came from outside experiences and it wasn’t real. I was constantly numbing my emotions – pain, shame and fear. I also discovered later on that subconsciously I had been using working as an escort as a way to keep myself safe emotionally by making myself unavailable for a relationship because I thought no one would want me whilst I did this work.

But this all changed when I met a man who I felt I had a deep soul connection with.

After a short but intense time together, he ranaway which left me feeling rejected all over again and it brought up all the painful emotions and beliefs I had been burying such as ‘I’m not good enough, I’m not pretty enough, there is something wrong with me and I am not worthy of love’. As much as I wanted to numb this pain with more ‘stuff’ and ‘busy-ness’, that feeling of self-doubt really hit me and I knew it was time to do something drastic, I had to do something that I had never done before. I had to choose to be vulnerable and feel all of my emotions. So my journey of awakening began by attending a retreat, and then by continuing to do meditation, yoga, dance, reading books, being mentored and coaching, going to more workshops and retreats and receiving many healing sessions (and a lot of tears through all of it). This is when I was able to release the pain I had buried for so long, so that I could feel the love that was already within me.

Yes! I had discovered that the love I was seeking was actually inside of me!

So whilst having sex my physical body was there, but it was like my my soul was flying out in space somewhere!

I had a new partner now and there was almost no intimacy in our relationship, when I had sex I was just doing it to please him and he could often feel that I was a million miles away. What I realised is that I had lost the connection to my sexual self, my sexual energy and my body. I wasn’t even in my body so how could I be present with anyone?! I found that sex had lost the meaning I had previously put on it. I didn’t need to have sex to feel loved, worthy, wanted, powerful and in control. I didn’t need to use sex to feel safe and to hide who I was, which is what I had been doing my whole life! By now I was even struggling to orgasm and I hardly felt any pleasure at all. So now it felt like work and of course it felt like work, because that is what it had become to me. Sex was work and my body had become completely numb to receiving and feeling pleasure. Sometimes it was even painful and I would pretend I was making sounds of pleasure to keep the other person happy, no wonder my body was so numb!

I couldn’t believe that I had become this way… what was wrong with me?!

The fact that I was not wanting to be intimate was a huge contributor to the ending of that relationship. After it ended I decided that I wasn’t going to let this happen again so I knew it was time again for more healing and this took my transformation to a whole other level! This is when I started to explore Tantra and my Sexual Healing journey began. Through this I was able to awaken my sexual energy which actually had been blocked pretty much my whole life. I had to completely rewire my body for pleasure and heal sexual shame so that I would feel worthy of receiving pleasure. From my previous wild sex life I thought I was some sort of sex expert, however when I started to explore sex consciously I realised that I knew nothing!! This was a whole new world for me and I realised had been so limited in my pleasure. I hadn’t actually been in my body for a very, very long time and my past sexual experiences had come from an inauthentic place, seeking love, attention, validation, power, control and worthiness. I was afraid of being seen and being vulnerable, even though I worked in the sex industry providing intimacy for others, I actually was avoiding intimacy myself! Although I thought I was sexually empowered, I really wasn’t.

Real sexual empowerment for me came from consciously exploring sex...

through these sexual healing and tantric practices and attending many retreats, courses and workshops. I was on a mission! I had to get back into my body and this started with tantric massage and conscious self-pleasure incorporating breath, sound, touch and movement. It was then that I knew that this was what I was meant to do for my clients! It all made sense now and it was like a big ‘aha’ moment when I realised I could blend my spiritual work and my sex work together. Instead of leaving escorting at this point, I decided to blend my work together by bringing tantric and sexual healing practices into the sessions with my clients. Initially I began offering tantric massage which then evolved into other tantra rituals and often full tantric sex. Effectively I had become a tantric escort.

I started to discover a whole new way of working with men that liberated their hearts and empowered them sexually.

The more I learned and healed myself, the more I was able to offer my clients. I held a safe space for my clients to open up to me, share their sexual issues and relationship problems and empower them to heal themselves too. I started to identify commonalities and after studying further in sexuality my work evolved into sexual healing and sex coaching for both men and women. You can read more on what I specially do in this area at my Soul Priestess website. I also developed the Soulgasmic Woman’s Tantric Sexual Healing Program which will help any women to awaken her own sexual energy and reconnect to her true embodied sexual self.

I had also done intensive healing around my own past abusive relationships.

Although I had never been abused as a child, I had experienced mental, emotional, physical and sexual abuse in my own romantic relationships and I never wanted to experience this again. When I began sharing my story vulnerably about this on social media and how I healed myself, so many women started to reach out to me that resonated to my story. So many women were longing for love and connection and were either closed off to love, self-sabotaging or in unhealthy relationship patterns where they would end up left feeling rejected, unwanted and devastated, just like I had. I have always felt drawn to help women, especially those who survived abused and this is why I developed my I Am Love Online Program, Workshops and Retreats which have been transformational for so many women. I am really passionate about helping end abuse which is why I am writing a book to help reach so many more women to help them heal from abuse too.

The more vulnerable I was the more people wanted to connect with me.

I started to get approached for interviews and speaking gigs and my business started to explode! There are so many people out there needing help with love and sex and I have become somewhat of a ‘go to’ person in this area. As my profile rose, eventually it came time for me to give up escorting completely because my body was starting to say No. I had to really honour myself with this and as I did I started to get booked out with tantra sessions and my workshops and retreats were selling out! I knew that I had held onto that part of me for so long just in case I failed, but it was time for me to say goodbye to that other identity that had kept me safe for so long and trust that everything would work out…. and it did… more than I could even have imagined!

And so here I am now.... Being Seen. Being Vulnerable. Standing in my Truth.

What I have learned has transformed my life forever and I know that it can now transform yours.

I can help you to awaken and heal so that you can be connected to your soul, have amazing relationships and have an epic sex life! I am here to make this possible for all men, women and couples.

A woman’s real beauty is the reflection of her inner happiness and I awakened the beautiful woman within by letting go of who I thought I was supposed to be and embracing who I am.

And who I AM is LOVE.

We are all Love and I would love to connect with you!

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Professional Bio

Emmajane Love (EJ) is a Love, Relationship and Sex Coach, Sexual Healer / Tantra Practitioner. EJ’s vast knowledge on Love, Intimacy and Sex combined with her focus on self-love, soul connection and spirituality has led to her being aptly dubbed the Love Priestess. She helps people to heal and empower themselves in love, intimacy and sex and speaking from her own personal experience, she travels the world sharing her message through speaking events, media, radio shows and writing articles, books and blogs.
She has experienced the deep power of sexual healing and tantra and with studies in conscious relationships as well as personal development she has created online programs, one-on-one coaching, workshops and retreats which have helped hundreds of women and men to release and heal their pasts to go forward in love with confidence.

EJ is a regular speaker at SEXPO and the featured Love and Sex Expert on Soul TV. Her first book will be published by the end of 2017. Her mission is to help change the world by helping people to awaken and heal and to ultimately have deeply loving and intimate relationships.

You can connect with EJ via her Facebook page – www.facebook.com/EJLoveAngel. www.EJLove.com and www.SoulPriestess.com.

Together as one we can make a difference – make the world a better place – to heal the world!