INTIMATE RELATING
TEACHER TRAINING

INTIMATE RELATING Coach and Embodied Facilitator

Become a trauma-informed embodied leader that facilitates transformational experiences for groups and individuals that create deep connection and real change in the world









INTIMATE RELATING
TEACHER TRAINING

INTIMATE RELATING COACH AND EMBODIED FACILITATOR

Become a trauma-informed embodied leader that facilitates transformational experiences for groups and individuals that create deep connection and Real Change in the World

what this training is

This is a 7 day in person mixed gender training followed by a 4 month online component to support you to integrate these teachings and be practicing them in your life and in your work.

The Intimate Relating Teacher Training (IRTT) is a practical education on the path of Intimate Relating where we take an embodied approach to love.

We believe that embodiment, rather than just mindset work or talk therapy, are absolutely vital to self-love and to having healthy relationships and experiencing deep intimacy.

Although there will be theory to explain each topic and module the focus will be on tools and practices to guide and facilitate 1:1 clients, couples and groups in the following:

RELATIONAL INTIMACY 
EMBODIED EXPRESSION 
INTIMATE LEADERSHIP

what this training is

This is a 7 day in person mixed gender training followed by a 4 month online component to support you to integrate these teachings and be practicing them in your life and in your work.

The Intimate Relating Teacher Training (IRTT) is a practical education on the path of Intimate Relating where we take an embodied approach to love.

We believe that embodiment, rather than just mindset work or talk therapy, are absolutely vital to self-love and to having healthy relationships and experiencing deep intimacy.

Although there will be theory to explain each topic and module the focus will be on tools and practices to guide and facilitate 1:1 clients, couples and groups in the following:

RELATIONAL INTIMACY 
EMBODIED EXPRESSION 
INTIMATE LEADERSHIP

PILLAR 1
RELATIONAL INTIMACY

FOUNDATIONS AND PHILOSOPHY

  • Container Agreements
  • ​Foundational Maps of the Intimate Relating Method
  • ​ The Path to Healthy Soul Aligned Relating and Deep Intimacy
  • Co-Dependent Rolemates and Interdependent Whole Mates

CONSCIOUS COMMUNICATION &
EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

  • Conscious Communication Tools and Emotional Intimacy
  • Vulnerability Practices, Curiosity Games and the Circle of Empathy
  • ​Understanding Trauma Responses (Flight, Freeze, Fight and Fawn)
  • Facilitating Practices that Support Clients to Manage and Heal their Triggers

SOMATIC ROLE RELEASING

  • Identifying Client's Conditioned Relating Roles/Masks such as the People Pleaser, Rescuer, Caretaker, Victim, High Achiever, Nice Guy, Good Girl etc
  • ​Guiding Clients through the Somatic Ancestral Role Releasing Process

ATTACHMENT & SECURITY

  • The Attachment Style Game for Group Workshops and Sessions
  • Somatic Processes to Support Clients Move through their Fears of Intimacy and into More Security
  • ​Shifting ‘Either / Or’ Belief Systems

EXPERIENTIAL BOUNDARIES

  • The VIBE Circle - Values, Integrity, Boundaries, Experience
  • Making Requests and Communicating Needs and Boundaries
  • ​Embodied Boundary Practices for Individuals and Groups

INTIMACY RITUALS & PRACTICES

  • Group Ritual to bring your event attendees together in Love, Intimacy and Connection
  • The Honouring Ritual that Heals the Separation Between Men and Women
  • Partnered Intimacy Practices
  • Self-Care and Self-Intimacy

PILLAR 1
RELATIONAL INTIMACY

FOUNDATIONS AND PHILOSOPHY

  • Container Agreements
  • ​Foundational Maps of the Intimate Relating Method
  • ​ The Path to Healthy Soul Aligned Relating and Deep Intimacy
  • Co-Dependent Rolemates and Interdependent Whole Mates

CONSCIOUS COMMUNICATION &
EMOTIONAL INTIMACY

  • Conscious Communication Tools and Emotional Intimacy
  • Vulnerability Practices, Curiosity Games and the Circle of Empathy
  • ​Understanding Trauma Responses (Flight, Freeze, Fight and Fawn)
  • Facilitating Practices that Support Clients to Manage and Heal their Triggers

SOMATIC ROLE RELEASING

  • Identifying Client's Conditioned Relating Roles/Masks such as the People Pleaser, Rescuer, Caretaker, Victim, High Achiever, Nice Guy, Good Girl etc
  • ​Guiding Clients through the Somatic Ancestral Role Releasing Process

ATTACHMENT & SECURITY

  • The Attachment Style Game for Group Workshops and Sessions
  • Somatic Processes to Support Clients Move through their Fears of Intimacy and into More Security
  • ​Shifting ‘Either / Or’ Belief Systems

EXPERIENTIAL BOUNDARIES

  • The VIBE Circle - Values, Integrity, Boundaries, Experience
  • Making Requests and Communicating Needs and Boundaries
  • ​Embodied Boundary Practices for Individuals and Groups

INTIMACY RITUALS & PRACTICES

  • Group Ritual to bring your event attendees together in Love, Intimacy and Connection
  • The Honouring Ritual that Heals the Separation Between Men and Women
  • Partnered Intimacy Practices
  • Self-Care and Self-Intimacy

PILLAR 2
EMBODIED EXPRESSION

ROLE & SHADOW PLAY

  • Identifying a Role's Shadow/s, Fears and Covert Motives
  • ​Using Role Play to bring out Inner Characters
  • ​Group Games and Partnered Practices for Roles, Fears and Shadows

ARCHETYPAL EMBODIMENT

  • Foundations of Embodiment
  • Exploring Archetypes as Medicine for the Roles
  • Embodiment and Expression of the Intimacy Archetypes
  • Playing with Archetypes through Partnered Practices and Group RItual

Embodied POLARITY & UNION

  • Embodied Polarity V Unhealthy Polarity
  • ​Authentic Self-Expression Practices as a Pathway for Desire, Attraction and Intimacy
  • Inner Counselling Parts Process
  • ​Self-Marriage Ceremony

PLAY & AUTHENTIC SELF-EXPRESSION

  • Improv Games and Icebreakers for Group Connection and Community Building
  • Opening up both your and your client's Self-Expression through Curioisity, Spontaneity and Play
  • ​Play and Practices to Regulate the Nervous System

PILLAR 2
EMBODIED EXPRESSION

ROLE & SHADOW PLAY

  • Identifying a Role's Shadow/s, Fears and Covert Motives
  • ​Using Role Play to bring out Inner Characters
  • ​Group Games and Partnered Practices for Roles, Fears and Shadows

ARCHETYPAL EMBODIMENT

  • Foundations of Embodiment
  • Exploring Archetypes as Medicine for the Roles
  • Embodiment and Expression of the Intimacy Archetypes
  • Playing with Archetypes through Partnered Practices and Group RItual

Embodied POLARITY & UNION

  • Embodied Polarity V Unhealthy Polarity
  • Authentic Self-Expression Practices as a Pathway for Desire, Attraction and Intimacy
  • Inner Counselling Parts Process
  • ​Self-Marriage Ceremony

PLAY & AUTHENTIC
SELF-EXPRESSION

  • Improv Games and Icebreakers for Group Connection and Community Building
  • Opening up both your and your client's Self-Expression through Curioisity, Spontaneity and Play
  • ​Play and Practices to Regulate the Nervous System

PILLAR 3
INTIMATE LEADERSHIP

LEADERSHIP & FACILITATION SKILLS

  • Being Human whilst also being an Integral and Embodied Leader
  • ​Understand the Qualities of Effective Facilitation
  • ​ Leading and Facilitating Groups, Workshops and Online Events
  • Facilitating 1:1 sessions with tools and processes to coach individuals and couples
  • ​Client Agreements, Boundaries and Accountability

TRAUMA INFORMED CARE

  • Guest Expert Teacher on Trauma and being Trauma-Informed
  • Understanding the Impacts of Trauma and How it May Show up in your Clients and How to Best Support Them
  • Using the Understanding of Trauma-Informed Practice to Create more Safety and Minimise Re-traumatisation

LIVE PRACTICE & COMMUNITY

  • Opportunities for you to Practice Facilitating Group and/or 1:1 Practices
  • ​Opportunities to Run Games, Practices and Sessions for the Group
  • Feedback and Support from Community Leaders and Peers

MARKETING & BUSINESS ONLINE
BOOTCAMP

  • Getting Clear on your Aligned Offers
  • Event Pricing & Coaching Packages
  • ​Releasing Imposter Syndrome
  • Gaining Credibility and Authority
  • ​Creating Content that Attracts Soul-Aligned Clients

PILLAR 3
INTIMATE LEADERSHIP

LEADERSHIP & FACILITATION SKILLS

  • Being Human whilst also being an Integral and Embodied Leader
  • ​Understand the Qualities of Effective Facilitation
  • ​ Leading and Facilitating Groups, Workshops and Online Events
  • Facilitating 1:1 sessions with tools and processes to coach individuals and couples
  • ​Client Agreements, Boundaries and Accountability

TRAUMA INFORMED CARE

  • Guest Expert Teacher on Trauma and being Trauma-Informed
  • Understanding the Impacts of Trauma and How it May Show up in your Clients and How to Best Support Them
  • Using the Understanding of Trauma-Informed Practice to Create more Safety and Minimise Re-traumatisation

LIVE PRACTICE & COMMUNITY

  • Opportunities for you to Practice Facilitating Group and/or 1:1 Practices
  • ​Opportunities to Run Games, Practices and Sessions for the Group
  • Feedback and Support from Community Leaders and Peers

MARKETING & BUSINESS ONLINE
BOOTCAMP

  • Getting Clear on your Aligned Offers
  • Event Pricing & Coaching Packages
  • ​Releasing Imposter Syndrome
  • Gaining Credibility and Authority
  • ​Creating Content that Attracts Soul-Aligned Clients

BONUS ONLINE MODULES

These modules will all be uploaded in the course portal.
The practical parts of the relational healing module will be covered in the in person training as well. These bonus modules are specifically designed for those who want more knowledge and teachings in these specific areas.

RELATIONAL HEALING

  • Full Healing Process for Healing the Client's Relationship with Men and/or Women
  • ​Process for Healing Father and Mother Wounds
  • Initiating into the Divine Father and Divine Mother Archetypes and Re-parenting the Inner Child

MEN’S WORK & INITIATIONS

  • Guest Expert (announcing soon!)
  • Understanding Men’s Process of Initiation and Men's Work
  • ​Importance of Healing the Mother Wound as part of Men's Initiation and for Empowered Relating
  • How Women can Powerfully Support their Male Clients

RELATING TEMPLATES

  • Relating and Intimacy Tools
  • Relationship Agreements Process
  • ​Commitment Ritual for Couples
  • Conscious Uncoupling and Completion Rituals

FOUNDATIONS OF SEXUAL HEALING

  • Understanding Sexual Healing for Men’s Sexual Dysfunction
  • Understanding Sexual Healing for Women's Sexual Dysfunction
  • ​Bonus Programs included: Tantric Men’s Sex Mastery Program, Women’s Tantric Sexual Healing Program.

CONSCIOUS SEXUALITY TEMPLATES

  • The Sex and Intimacy Bucketlist Template
  • ​Bedroom Template with Desires, Fears, Boundaries and Consent
  • ​Sex and Intimacy Reflection Template
  • The Conscious Dating Process

OUTCOMES OF THE TRAINING

WHEN YOU FULLY COMMIT TO COMPLETING THIS TRAINING YOU CAN EXPECT TO:
  • Feel confident in coaching and facilitating clients and groups in person and online as a Love, Relationship and/or Intimacy Coach
  • Be able to powerfully lead and facilitate transformational group workshops, retreats, circles and online group programs
  • ​Have a large toolbox of practices and processes and know the best ones to use for different client situations
  • ​Be trauma-informed and minimise the risk of re-traumatisation
  • ​Feel confident knowing that you really do know enough to be able teach and lead on intimacy and relationships and can give your clients an integral experience
  • ​Feel embodied and in integrity with what you are teaching and become recognised as a leader in your chosen field
  • ​Understand the skills and frameworks of intimate relating coaching and facilitation and have done coaching and facilitation practice
  • ​Have more freedom, time flexibility and security as you have the ability to work fully online anywhere in the world
  • ​Be supported to offer your deepest soul-aligned work and market yourself to your soulmate clients
  • ​Bring people together to connect on a deeper level and feel a sense of community, fulfillment, joy and being lit up as you guide people through their transformations
  • ​​Have the opportunities to collaborate with other people in this field and know that you don't have to figure it out all on your own
  • ​​Be in a powerful community of other teachers and peers who welcome your humanness and celebrate play, fun and full expression and who are there to support you and cheer you on as you step into this work
  • ​Step powerfully into your purpose and vision for your life and be creating real change and connection in the world!
INTIMATE RELATING TRAINING IS FOR YOU IF YOU:
  • Have already done healing and conscious relating work on your own relationships and intimacy and are feeling the call to be able to teach this work yourself
  • ​​Want to feel really supported and held so that can confidently step into offering this work as a group facilitator and/or coach
  • ​Already work in relationships, intimacy or sexuality and are wanting more tools, teachings and guidance so that you can support your clients at a deeper level and be trauma-informed
  • ​Are a coach or facilitator in another field or industry and want to add it to what you already do OR you want to transition your coaching work into working in the field of relating and intimacy
  • ​​Have always been interested in love, intimacy and relationships and may already often find people asking you for your advice
  • ​Want to step out of a job that isn’t really lighting you up and you feel like helping people with relationships, intimacy and self-expression would be deeply fulfilling
  • ​Want to be part of an intimate community who are committed to creating change in the way people relate and connect on a global scale!
  • ​Want to master your own intimate relationships, embodiment and self-expression and be around people who are committed to this for themselves too

OUTCOMES OF THE TRAINING

WHEN YOU FULLY COMMIT TO COMPLETING THIS TRAINING YOU CAN EXPECT TO:
  • Feel confident in coaching and facilitating clients and groups in person and online as a Love, Relationship and/or Intimacy Coach
  • Be able to powerfully lead and facilitate transformational group workshops, retreats, circles and online group programs
  • ​Have a large toolbox of practices and processes and know the best ones to use for different client situations
  • ​Be trauma-informed and minimise the risk of re-traumatisation
  • ​Feel confident knowing that you really do know enough to be able teach and lead on intimacy and relationships and can give your clients an integral experience
  • ​Feel embodied and in integrity with what you are teaching and become recognised as a leader in your chosen field
  • ​Understand the skills and frameworks of intimate relating coaching and facilitation and have done coaching and facilitation practice
  • ​Have more freedom, time flexibility and security as you have the ability to work fully online anywhere in the world
  • ​Be supported to offer your deepest soul-aligned work and market yourself to your soulmate clients
  • ​Bring people together to connect on a deeper level and feel a sense of community, fulfillment, joy and being lit up as you guide people through their transformations
  • ​​Have the opportunities to collaborate with other people in this field and know that you don't have to figure it out all on your own
  • ​​Be in a powerful community of other teachers and peers who welcome your humanness and celebrate play, fun and full expression and who are there to support you and cheer you on as you step into this work
  • ​Step powerfully into your purpose and vision for your life and be creating real change and connection in the world!
INTIMATE RELATING TRAINING IS FOR YOU IF YOU:
  • Have already done healing and conscious relating work on your own relationships and intimacy and are feeling the call to be able to teach this work yourself
  • ​​Want to feel really supported and held so that can confidently step into offering this work as a group facilitator and/or coach
  • ​Already work in relationships, intimacy or sexuality and are wanting more tools, teachings and guidance so that you can support your clients at a deeper level and be trauma-informed
  • ​Are a coach or facilitator in another field or industry and want to add it to what you already do OR you want to transition your coaching work into working in the field of relating and intimacy
  • ​​Have always been interested in love, intimacy and relationships and may already often find people asking you for your advice
  • ​Want to step out of a job that isn’t really lighting you up and you feel like helping people with relationships, intimacy and self-expression would be deeply fulfilling
  • ​Want to be part of an intimate community who are committed to creating change in the way people relate and connect on a global scale!
  • ​Want to master your own intimate relationships, embodiment and self-expression and be around people who are committed to this for themselves too


“Working with EJ and especially learning her role releasing processes has helped me make over $500,000 online in less than 2 years as an intimacy coach. 
My clients absolutely froth over this work!”

Michelle Panning, The Intimacy Alchemist


“Working with EJ and especially learning her role releasing processes has helped me make over $500,000 online in less than 2 years as an intimacy coach. My clients absolutely froth over this work!”

Michelle Panning, The Intimacy Alchemist

lead teacher

EJ LOVE
Hi, I’m EJ Love and I’m an Intimate Relating Specialist and the Author of the International Bestselling Book ‘Become the One’ and host of the Deep Sexy Play Podcast.

My journey into sexuality and conscious relationships actually began back in 2010 working in the sex industry which led me me down the path of neo-tantra and sexual healing.

When I started this healing journey for myself I had no idea how much it would change my life
and the lives of my clients! 
Being someone who loves to research, experiment and try new things (I'm a Mental Projector 1/3 in Human Design), I spent thousands of hours and dollars investing in workshops, courses, and practitioner trainings to be able to bring tantric healing and intimacy practices into my sexuality work.

Over time I developed my own neo-tantra and intimacy rituals and healing practices where I supported thousands of men 1:1 and eventually I started teaching other women how to offer this work to men too.

I was also going through my own healing from past relationships after experiencing a series of abusive relationships and realising that I was co-dependent and had spent most of my life trying to rescue and please men, whilst avoiding my own emotions and vulnerabilities. 

I was determined to do whatever it took to heal myself and change my patterns for good which led me down a deep journey of self-love and the path of inner union - what I call to "become the one" (hence the name of my book!).

In 2016 through a series of synchronistic events my self-love work went viral and even my sexual healing work was featured in the media. I was now running workshops, retreats and courses for women all over the world to help them to heal their relationships with men and themselves.

By this time I had spent countless hours doing personal development and what I was noticing and had experienced myself was people constantly jumping into and getting addicted to spiritual healing and mindset work, whilst remaining disassociated from their body and emotions.

I also attended a lot of neo-tantra and intimacy workshops that offered a lot of practices and embodiment, but weren't going deep enough into the underlying patterns, fears and roles that were playing out for people in their relationships and intimacy.

So I saw the gap and I decided to bridge it and this is what has now become the Intimate Relating Method.

Intimate relating is about exploring our relationship TO intimacy, to being intimate with ourselves, our emotions, our fears, our roles and identities, our desires, our bodies, our soul and how we then can relate to others consciously from this deep place of intimacy from within.

Through my personal intimate relating healing journey I was able to release the roles I was playing in my life and relationships and shift the fears of intimacy that were holding me back from having the deep intimacy I really wanted. I then attracted and enter into my first healthy secure relationship where I felt safe to be vulnerable and express all of myself! 

I also started to do business differently where I took much better care of myself rather than constantly giving so much to try and help people. From this place, I was able to express more of my true self into the world, support my clients in a more powerful way and offer my work from a soul-fulfilling place. One of the greatest gifts this work has given me is the permission to play and be human, which is now a foundational teaching of this training!

One of my intentions is that those who do this training feel really empowered and confident to offer their work in a way that is truly soul-aligned for them too. I want to help more teachers and leaders to take care of themselves and to meet their own needs first so they can give from their overflow and be able to serve their clients with integrity and authenticity. I also want you to feel like this work gets to be fun and easy and that you get to feel lit up by your work every day!

I decided to make this a mixed-gender training because a big part of my work and passion has been about bringing men and women together to help them heal their relationships with each other and work together in harmony and unity. I believe this has the power to change the world.

You will also get to know that I am a deeply curious woman who openly shares my own personal stories that are often vulnerable, enlightening and even a bit edgy! So definitely don't expect this to be a boring, content-heavy training, as you will get to express more parts of yourself, be creative and have a whole lot of fun! I am a big believer that personal development doesn't have to be so serious and that play is deep medicine for our soul.

My ultimate vision is to pass this knowledge and these practices, rituals and processes on so that this work can reach more people and we can live in a world where healthy conscious relationships are the norm and we can all experience deep connection, real intimacy and feel truly alive and free to express our true selves!

lead teacher

EJ LOVE
Hi, I’m EJ Love and I’m an Intimate Relating Specialist and the Author of the International Bestselling Book ‘Become the One’ and host of the Deep Sexy Play Podcast.

My journey into sexuality and conscious relationships actually began back in 2010 working in the sex industry which led me me down the path of neo-tantra and sexual healing.

When I started this healing journey for myself I had no idea how much it would change my life and the lives of my clients!
Being someone who loves to research, experiment and try new things (I'm a Mental Projector 1/3 in Human Design), I spent thousands of hours and dollars investing in workshops, courses, and practitioner trainings to be able to bring tantric healing and intimacy practices into my sexuality work.

Over time I developed my own neo-tantra and intimacy rituals and healing practices where I supported thousands of men 1:1 and eventually I started teaching other women how to offer this work to men too.

I was also going through my own healing from past relationships after experiencing a series of abusive relationships and realising that I was co-dependent and had spent most of my life trying to rescue and please men, whilst avoiding my own emotions and vulnerabilities. 

I was determined to do whatever it took to heal myself and change my patterns for good which led me down a deep journey of self-love and the path of inner union - what I call to "become the one" (hence the name of my book!).

In 2016 through a series of synchronistic events my self-love work went viral and even my sexual healing work was featured in the media. I was now running workshops, retreats and courses for women all over the world to help them to heal their relationships with men and themselves.

By this time I had spent countless hours doing personal development and what I was noticing and had experienced myself was people constantly jumping into and getting addicted to spiritual healing and mindset work, whilst remaining disassociated from their body and emotions.

I also attended a lot of neo-tantra and intimacy workshops that offered a lot of practices and embodiment, but weren't going deep enough into the underlying patterns, fears and roles that were playing out for people in their relationships and intimacy.

So I saw the gap and I decided to bridge it and this is what has now become the Intimate Relating Method.

Intimate relating is about exploring our relationship TO intimacy, to being intimate with ourselves, our emotions, our fears, our roles and identities, our desires, our bodies, our soul and how we then can relate to others consciously from this deep place of intimacy from within.

Through my personal intimate relating healing journey I was able to release the roles I was playing in my life and relationships and shift the fears of intimacy that were holding me back from having the deep intimacy I really wanted. I then attracted and enter into my first healthy secure relationship where I felt safe to be vulnerable and express all of myself! 

I also started to do business differently where I took much better care of myself rather than constantly giving so much to try and help people. From this place, I was able to express more of my true self into the world, support my clients in a more powerful way and offer my work from a soul-fulfilling place. One of the greatest gifts this work has given me is the permission to play and be human, which is now a foundational teaching of this training!

One of my intentions is that those who do this training feel really empowered and confident to offer their work in a way that is truly soul-aligned for them too. I want to help more teachers and leaders to take care of themselves and to meet their own needs first so they can give from their overflow and be able to serve their clients with integrity and authenticity. I also want you to feel like this work gets to be fun and easy and that you get to feel lit up by your work every day!

I decided to make this a mixed-gender training because a big part of my work and passion has been about bringing men and women together to help them heal their relationships with each other and work together in harmony and unity. I believe this has the power to change the world.

You will also get to know that I am a deeply curious woman who openly shares my own personal stories that are often vulnerable, enlightening and even a bit edgy! So definitely don't expect this to be a boring, content-heavy training, as you will get to express more parts of yourself, be creative and have a whole lot of fun! I am a big believer that personal development doesn't have to be so serious and that play is deep medicine for our soul.

My ultimate vision is to pass this knowledge and these practices, rituals and processes on so that this work can reach more people and we can live in a world where healthy conscious relationships are the norm and we can all experience deep connection, real intimacy and feel truly alive and free to express our true selves!

GUEST teacherS

emily orum
Emily Orum AKA the Heart Ninja was one of EJ's first coaches and guides on the path of conscious relating when Emily was co-running the Love Coach Academy and training people to become love and relationship coaches. Emily will be bringing her incredible wealth of wisdom offering an online guest expert training to guide and support our students to step fully and confidently into working in this field.

She is a pioneer and expert of sexual self mastery, intimacy, love, personal empowerment, and alternative lifestyle relating. She is also a model, artist, singer, and storyteller. She embraces and holds the vision of a world of radical acceptance, inclusion, harmony, belonging and celebration within each other's differences. 
She aims to empower each individual to own their authentic truth, sex, and design and create their own unique love style. Her Heart Ninja tool belt is extensive embodying the tools of emotional, somatic, and erotic intelligence, codependence recovery, and over 15 years of therapeutic practices. 

She has achieved numerous certifications, and a range of skills and gifts as a Bodyworker, Sexual Pioneer, Sound Healer, Dominatrix, and Visionary Craniosacral Practitioner.

She specialises in: Empowerment Work, Sexual Self Mastery, Conscious BDSM/ KINK, Consensual Non Monogamy: Relationship Design, Compassionate Communication, Interpersonal Relationship Dynamics, Parts Work Integration, and Attachment Theory. 




**MORE GUEST TEACHERS TO BE ANNOUNCED**

GUEST SPEAKERS
emily orum
Emily Orum AKA the Heart Ninja was one of EJ's first coaches and guides on the path of conscious relating when Emily was co-running the Love Coach Academy and training people to become love and relationship coaches. Emily will be bringing her incredible wealth of wisdom offering an online guest expert training to guide and support our students to step fully and confidently into working in this field.

She is a pioneer and expert of sexual self mastery, intimacy, love, personal empowerment, and alternative lifestyle relating. She is also a model, artist, singer, and storyteller. She embraces and holds the vision of a world of radical acceptance, inclusion, harmony, belonging and celebration within each other's differences. 
She aims to empower each individual to own their authentic truth, sex, and design and create their own unique love style. Her Heart Ninja tool belt is extensive embodying the tools of emotional, somatic, and erotic intelligence, codependence recovery, and over 15 years of therapeutic practices. 

She has achieved numerous certifications, and a range of skills and gifts as a Bodyworker, Sexual Pioneer, Sound Healer, Dominatrix, and Visionary Craniosacral Practitioner.

She specialises in: Empowerment Work, Sexual Self Mastery, Conscious BDSM/ KINK, Consensual Non Monogamy: Relationship Design, Compassionate Communication, Interpersonal Relationship Dynamics, Parts Work Integration, and Attachment Theory. 


**MORE GUEST TEACHERS TO BE ANNOUNCED**

How it works and what's included

IN PERSON IMMERSION + ONLINE

IN PERSON TRAINING - 7 Day Immersion followed by 4 Months Online

DATES:  17th to 23rd March 2023

LOCATION: On the Gold Coast, Mermaid Waters Hotel, Queensland, Australia

4 MONTHS PLUS LIVE ONLINE AND RECORDED CALLS
There will be 3 live calls per month over zoom for practice and for Q & A. These will be recorded if you can’t make it live. However, for practice, interaction and live feedback we recommend to be on live as much as possible.

You will be given access to teaching modules in the online course portal that you will access with your personal login and password.

GUEST TEACHER TRAININGS
There will be online guest teacher trainings and you will be advised of when these will be live. There will also already be a series of expert interviews in the course portal which are optional to watch, but are there for you if and when you need them.

ONLINE SUPPORT COMMUNITY
There will an online group where you can connect with other people in the training, get support and ask questions in between calls.

GRADUATION CERTIFICATE
This will be given out once you have passed the assessment.

How it works and what's included

IN PERSON IMMERSION + ONLINE

IN PERSON TRAINING - 7 Day Immersion followed by 4 Months Online

DATES: 17th to 23rd March 2023

LOCATION: On the Gold Coast, Mermaid Waters Hotel, Queensland, Australia

4 MONTHS LIVE ONLINE AND RECORDED CALLS
There will be 3 live calls per month over zoom for practice and for Q & A. These will be recorded if you can’t make it live. However, for practice, interaction and live feedback we recommend to be on live as much as possible.

You will be given access to teaching modules in the online course portal that you will access with your personal login and password.

GUEST TEACHER TRAININGS
There will be online guest teacher trainings and you will be advised of when these will be live. There will also already be a series of expert interviews in the course portal which are optional to watch, but are there for you if and when you need them.

ONLINE SUPPORT COMMUNITY
There will an online group where you can connect with other people in the training, get support and ask questions in between calls.

GRADUATION CERTIFICATE
This will be given out once you have passed the assessment.


"Even months on after doing your work I am still feeling and experiencing how much this is continuing to improve my work and personal relating. I feel like I have become a really safe space for men to open up to. You probably don’t realise how much your work has a ripple effect out into people’s lives and communities”

Krystal Doyle, Relationship and Dating Coach


"Even months on after doing your work I am still feeling and experiencing how much this is continuing to improve my work and personal relating. I feel like I have become a really safe space for men to open up to. You probably don’t realise how much your work has a ripple effect out into people’s lives and communities”

Krystal Doyle, Relationship and Dating Coach

THE INVESTMENT

We prefer to be fully transparent with our pricing so that you have as much information as possible before applying. We are also committed to helping you find a way to make this work for you financially, even if you think you cannot afford it we suggest to apply anyway to see what we can workout for you.

SPECIAL EARLYBIRD INVESTMENT

$7,997 AUD

(by 24th February or until places are filled)

All payments are in AUD.

GENERAL INVESTMENT

$8,497 AUD


All payments are in AUD.

THE INVESTMENT

We prefer to be fully transparent with our pricing so that you have as much information as possible before applying. We are also committed to helping you find a way to make this work for you financially, even if you think you cannot afford it we suggest to apply anyway to see what we can workout for you.

SPECIAL EARLYBIRD
INVESTMENT

$7,997 AUD

(by 24th February or until places are filled)

All payments are in AUD.

GENERAL 
INVESTMENT

$8,497 AUD


All payments are in AUD.

PAYMENT PLAN OPTIONS

We offer in house payment plans that start at just $500p/mth. We will discuss your payment options on the application call to see what we can arrange for you.

If you need a longer payment plan we also work with a finance company who can support you to be able to study now and pay later through a longer payment plan. Please let us know on your application call if you would like to apply for this option.

YOUR RETURN ON INVESTMENT

Being certified and having this level of support is will help you to really value yourself and to feel more confident in putting your work out there, which will result in being able to make the money back of your investment and so much more.

However, a financial return on investment comes down to your willingness and ability to show up and take action, so therefore we cannot make any guarantees on this, but we will do our best to support you as we really want to see you thrive!

faqs

WHEN DOES THE TRAINING START AND FINISH?

IN PERSON TRAINING IN QLD AUSTRALIA - 5th-11th November 2022

4 MONTH ONLINE - The full training will be completed by 31st July 2023.

HOW IS THE COURSE DELIVERED?

The online training components of the course are taught through a private membership platform that you will access with a login and password. The live calls are via zoom. You will also be able to share and ask questions in the private community facebook group.

WHAT IF I CAN'T MAKE A LIVE CALL? WILL THERE BE RECORDINGS?

Yes, we will record each zoom call. However we do highly recommend to be on live if and when you can for live interaction, practice and feedback.

HOW MUCH TIME WILL BE REQUIRED EACH WEEK?

We suggest to allow 3 hours each week to watch the trainings, be on the live calls or watch the replays and do any soulwork or assessments. We have designed it so that if you have a full-time job that you can still manage to do this in your spare time. 

Over Xmas time we have a break from live calls and you can also use this time to watch and catch up on the content. We do recommend to avoid committing to too many other courses or trainings so that you can give this as much focus as possible.

HOW LONG DO I HAVE ACCESS TO THE CONTENT FOR?

Most of the content will be made available for you to download so you can keep it forever and you will have lifetime access to the course material. We want you to be able to utilise this like a library that you can come back to again and again when you need it.

DO I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL I HAVE FINISHED THE COURSE BEFORE I START
MY BUSINESS OR TEACH THE CONTENT?

We will actually be encouraging you to practice and offer the teachings before the course finishes, however you won’t be officially certified to coach and facilitate this work until you have completed the course and assessments.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE TRAUMA-INFORMED?

This training is trauma-informed which means that you will learn how to recognise when a client is in a trauma response, create safety and minimise the risk of re-traumatisation.

We are not teaching you how to work deeply with someone's trauma and if that is what a client needs we suggest referring them to a trauma therapist if you don't have the specific training in this area yourself.

DO I NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP TO COACH ON RELATIONSHIPS?

No, not at all. We are relating all the time every day with ourselves and with others. Often what holds back people from teaching in this space is that they feel they may be out of integrity or feel like an imposter if they do not have their own relating life completely sorted or at a certain stage like being in a relationship.

We are a big believer in you embodying this work for yourself and will be supporting you to do this throughout the course, however we don't believe that you have to have it all figured out either! We will support you to get past any fears or stories that are holding you back from feeling really confident in teaching this work as we stand for you being able to teach this work no matter what your relationship status is!

I REALLY WANT TO DO THIS, BUT I CAN'T AFFORD IT.

We hear you, which is why we have done our best to make this as affordable as possible whilst also honouring our time, energy and expertise. This will be a deep container and requires a lot of energy and support to hold it and we need to be able to honour that so that we can really offer you the best possible training and support.

We have also added affordable payment plan options and a finance option to help you out that starts at as little as $45p/wk.

Our intention is also to support you to be coaching and/or creating your own programs or events, which will give you the opportunity to make back your investment before you have even finished the training.

REFUND POLICY

If you change your mind within 3 days of registering for the training then we will give you a refund of your deposit or for the full amount that you have paid.

After the 3 days, if you can no longer make the training for a vaild reason then the funds you have paid can be credited to a future training or another service.

You can also transfer your place and any remaining payments to someone else. It is your responsibility to find and organise the person you are transferring your place and payments to and they will also have to go through the application process and be approved by us before we confirm the transfer. 

HOW TO APPLY

The next step of the process is to fill out an application form here

EJ will personally read over your application form to make sure that you are a fit for the training.

If she thinks that this training is right for you she will email or text you to set up a time to have a 1:1 connection call over zoom to ask you some deeper questions and answer any other questions that you may have so that we can make sure this is right for you.

faqs

WHEN DOES THE TRAINING START AND FINISH?

IN PERSON TRAINING IN QLD AUSTRALIA - 17th to 23rd March 2023.

4 MONTH PLUS ONLINE - The full training will be completed by 31st July 2023.

HOW IS THE COURSE DELIVERED?

The online training components of the course are taught through a private membership platform that you will access with a login and password. The live calls are via zoom. You will also be able to share and ask questions in the private community facebook group.

WHAT IF I CAN'T MAKE A LIVE CALL? WILL THERE BE RECORDINGS?

Yes, we will record each zoom call. However we do highly recommend to be on live if and when you can for live interaction, practice and feedback.

HOW MUCH TIME WILL BE REQUIRED EACH WEEK?

We suggest to allow 2-3 hours each week to watch the trainings, be on the live calls or watch the replays and do any soulwork or assessments. We have designed it so that if you have a full-time job that you can still manage to do this in your spare time. 

Over Xmas time we have a break from live calls and you can also use this time to watch and catch up on the content. We do recommend to avoid committing to too many other courses or trainings so that you can give this as much focus as possible.

HOW LONG DO I HAVE ACCESS TO THE CONTENT FOR?

Most of the content will be made available for you to download so you can keep it forever and you will have lifetime access to the course material. We want you to be able to utilise this like a library that you can come back to again and again when you need it.

DO I HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL I HAVE FINISHED THE COURSE BEFORE I START
MY BUSINESS OR TEACH THE CONTENT?

We will actually be encouraging you to practice and offer the teachings before the course finishes, however you won’t be officially certified to coach and facilitate this work until you have completed the course and assessments.

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE TRAUMA-INFORMED?

This training is trauma-informed which means that you will learn how to recognise when a client is in a trauma response, create safety and minimise the risk of re-traumatisation.

We are not teaching you how to work deeply with someone's trauma and if that is what a client needs we suggest referring them to a trauma therapist if you don't have the specific training in this area yourself.

DO I NEED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP TO COACH ON RELATIONSHIPS?

No, not at all. We are relating all the time every day with ourselves and with others. Often what holds back people from teaching in this space is that they feel they may be out of integrity or feel like an imposter if they do not have their own relating life completely sorted or at a certain stage like being in a relationship.

We are a big believer in you embodying this work for yourself and will be supporting you to do this throughout the course, however we don't believe that you have to have it all figured out either! We will support you to get past any fears or stories that are holding you back from feeling really confident in teaching this work as we stand for you being able to teach this work no matter what your relationship status is!

I REALLY WANT TO DO THIS, BUT I CAN'T AFFORD IT.

We hear you, which is why we have done our best to make this as affordable as possible whilst also honouring our time, energy and expertise. This will be a deep container and requires a lot of energy and support to hold it and we need to be able to honour that so that we can really offer you the best possible training and support.

We have also added affordable payment plan options and a finance option to help you out that starts at as little as $45p/wk.

Our intention is also to support you to be coaching and/or creating your own programs or events, which will give you the opportunity to make back your investment before you have even finished the training.

REFUND POLICY

If you change your mind within 3 days of registering for the training then we will give you a refund of your deposit or for the full amount that you have paid.

After the 3 days, if you can no longer make the training for a vaild reason then the funds you have paid can be credited to a future training or another service.

You can also transfer your place and any remaining payments to someone else. It is your responsibility to find and organise the person you are transferring your place and payments to and they will also have to go through the application process and be approved by us before we confirm the transfer. 

HOW TO APPLY

The next step of the process is to fill out an application form here

EJ will personally read over your application form to make sure that you are a fit for the training.

If she thinks that this training is right for you she will email or text you to set up a time to have a 1:1 connection call over zoom to ask you some deeper questions and answer any other questions that you may have so that we can make sure this is right for you.

QUESTIONS?
If you have any further questions before applying or need more information please email us at support@ejlove.com or message EJ on Instagram or facebook.
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THE DIK INVESTMENT:

$1,777 Earlybird until 23rd Oct 

normal price is $1997

OR

Payment Plan Option - 12 x $185 f/night 


YOUR INVESTMENT:

$1,777 Earlybird In Full until 23rd Oct 


Normal Price $1997

OR

PAYMENT PLAN 12 x $185 f/night
(TOTAL $2220)